7 SECRETS THAT ALL MEN NEVER WANT WOMEN TO FIND OUT

1. THEY HAVE SEXUAL FANTASIES

Among the most common secrets men hide from women is, of course, the fact that they have sexual fantasies, even though most of them will deny it when asked about them. I honestly don’t know why they do that, because everyone, man or woman, has sexual fantasies, since everybody has quite a vivid imagination. Maybe they fear that you might get scared by their fantasies or that you may get them wrong. The best thing to do is to just sit down and talk to him and find out more details about those fantasies. Maybe there are a few things you can actually do together.

2. CUT TO THE CHASE

Another thing most men usually hide from women is the fact that they don’t care at all about all the little details of your stories. They want you to skip all the unnecessary facts and cut to the chase and tell them what’s really important. They like to keep it simple and not over-analyze things, because they see it as a waste of time, effort and energy. So, try not to bore your partner by telling him all there is to know about a certain thing, just cut to the chase and keep it simple!

3. THEY DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ON THE FIRST DATE

Most men see conversation on the first date as being extremely painful, because most of them haven’t got a clue about what to talk about on your first date to sweep you off your feet and to show you what a great catch they really are. That’s why most men prefer those crazy first dates when you don’t just go to dinner and talk, but you do other fun activities too, like going to an amusement park or even skydiving or bungee jumping.

4. SOMETIMES THEY WOULD LIKE YOU TO JUST SHUT UP

I know this may sound a little bit rough but sadly, it’s actually true. Most men would like their partners to just shut up from time to time and just be quiet for a little while. Experts say that because the male brain is more linear, “communicating at work all day exhausts his brain more than yours,” so that’s why sometimes it’s best to just give him some space and some time for himself, and not smother him with all your stories.

5. THEY DON’T WANT TO DO ALL THE DIRTY WORK BY THEMSELVES

Another thing most men hate, but they are afraid to tell you because they don’t want to get you upset, is the fact that they don’t like to do all the dirty work all by themselves. Sometimes they feel used, so that’s why you should show your appreciation more often and why not, give them a hand. I’m not telling you to kill that spider, just to help them scrub the bathroom floor or to take out the trash once in a while. After all, it’s not that hard to do it.

6. THEY OFTEN LIE TO KEEP THE PEACE

A lot of men tend not to say what’s on their minds when they’re fighting with their partner, because they fear the conflict would escalate, so that’s why they often lie about certain things just to keep the peace in their relationship. I’m not saying it’s the right thing to do, but the next time you find out that he lied to you about something, try to think about his reasons for lying before you start a huge fight.

7. THEY WANT TO FEEL ATTRACTIVE

Just like you, most men want to feel attractive and desired, even though they’re not saying it as often as you do. Men are insecure too and they want to know your opinion about them. They want to know how you see them and what you really think about them. So that’s why, from time to time, you should remind your partner why you love him so much, what makes him so great and why are you so lucky to be with him.
There are a lot of secrets men usually hide from women, secrets I don’t know about. So, can you give me a hand and tell me what other secrets men are usually keeping from their wives or girlfriends? Please share your opinion with us in the comments section!